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The 16 Farmer Wants A Wife Couples Who Are Still Together All These Years Later

Maggie Zhou — Fri, 19 Apr 2024 07:44:49 +0000

If there's one romantic reality TV show that has a soaring success rate, it's got to be Farmer Wants A Wife. With 16 (!) couples still together — some over 13 years later — and several farmer babies, there's a reason why so many of us love watching people fall in love surrounded by crops and sheep.

With Farmer Wants A Wife 2024 kicking off, we're in full reflective mode, wondering how some of our favourite couples are doing.

So we've stalked their Instagrams and put our sleuthing hats on and have figured out what couples from Farmer Wants A Wife are still going strong, all these years later.

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Season 1 (2007) — Chris Newsome & Kim Tierney

Are Chris Newsome & Kim Tierney still together?

As the first-ever farmer to venture on Farmer Wants A Wife, Tamworth local Chris Newsome braved the reality TV world to find love. There, he found Kim Tierney, a Geelong-based disability worker — his future wife and mother of their daughter, Charlotte and son, Corbin. Today, they still live together on Chris' farm in Tamworth with their son and daughter.

Season 2 (2008) — Rob Hodges & Jo Fincham

Are Rob Hodges & Jo Fincham still together?

Cattle and sheep farmer Rob Hodges from Mount Gambier found a life partner in Jo Fincham, who is now the owner of a health and wellbeing studio where she teaches reformer Pilates. The pair married in 2010 and share three kids together; Darcy, Maggie and Roy.

In 2024, the couple are married and have three children together. They've also moved from Rob's farm and are now living in Noosa.
Photo: Jo Fincham/Instagram.

Season 3 (2009) — Damian Atkins & Rachael Peynenborg

Are Damian Atkins & Rachael Peynenborg still together?

Down south in Tasmania, farmer Damian Atkins met Rachael Peynenborg on the show. The pair were slower to marry, joking that they only moved in together after the show finished filming and that their first child Harvey, born in 2011, was a "love child". In 2016, the duo got married and have had two more kids together, Fin and Mae. In 2024, they're still going strong.

Season 4 (2009) — Brad Crane & Stacie Marmion

Are Brad Crane & Stacie Marmion still together?

It's safe to say that it was love at first sight for Lithgow cattle farmer Brad Crane and Stacie Marmion. "I remember telling the producer, 'I am going to marry that girl', and he turned and said, 'Not yet, we have another 10 shows to go first,'' Crane told Now To Love.

The pair actually moved in with each other while the series was still being filmed and Crane proposed to Marmion after only six months of dating. They are now the parents of three kids, Darcie, Bobbie and Frankie.

Season 4 (2009) — Scott Warby & Clare Spark

Are Scott Warby & Clare Spark still together?

Farmer Scott Warby ended up with Brisbane-based Clare Spark after 2009's season of Farmer Wants A Wife. He was based in Mungindi, NSW and she was up north, so the pair started a long-distance relationship. After nine months of visiting each other every second weekend, Warby proposed and the couple married in 2011. Spark made the move to Mungindi, where they live with their children, Elsie and Fraser.

Season 5 (2010) — Nathan McClymont & Amanda Ecker

Are Nathan McClymont & Amanda Ecker still together?

The fastest proposal in Farmer Wants A Wife history, Nathan McClymont proposed to Amanda Ecker at the finale. Before going on the show, he was living on a 1.4 million acre cattle station. Now the pair have three sons, Mason, Benjamin and Oscar.

Season 7 (2011) — Frank Atherton & Tenille Jolly

Are Frank Atherton & Tenille Jolly still together?

Back in 2011, Frank Atherton took to Tenille Jolly on a five-minute speed date. The Hughenden farmer and Perth local clearly hit it off, with Atherton proposing two years later on Valentine’s Day at home on his property. The duo have one child together, Oliver.

Season 8 (2012) — Nikko Lord and Jade Truman

Are Nikko Lord and Jade Truman still together?

Over a decade ago, Nikko Lord went on Farmer Wants A Wife where he met his life partner, yoga teacher Jade Truman. The Richmond farmer and Truman married five years later in 2017 on North Stradbroke Island, and now share two boys together, Jock and Sandy.
Photographed by Stradbroke Island Photography.

Season 8 (2012) — Sam Alford & Jodie Byrne

Are Sam Alford & Jodie Byrne still together?

In the same season, Kununurra cattleman Sam Alford met Jodie Byrne and promptly fell in love. The farmer and the Sydney-based travel agent tried long distance post-show, but found that it wasn't working as best as it could. So, Byrne relocated to Western Australia. The couple married in 2015 and have a baby together named River.

Season 11 (2021) — Andrew Guthrie & Jess Nathan

Are Andrew Guthrie & Jess Nathan still together?

2021 saw the successful matching of Delegate farmer Andrew Guthrie and outspoken endometriosis sufferer Jess Nathan. The pair have bought a property together in Guthrie's home town and continue to share their loved-up lives online. The two of them tied the knot in 2024 and are now married!

Season 12 (2022) — Harry Lloyd and Tess Brookman

Are Harry Lloyd and Tess Brookman still together?

Harry and Tess have been loved up since the Season 12 finale. Harry's even left his farm for Tess, moving up to the Gold Coast to be with her as she finishes off her studies. In 2024, the couple ended up moving back to Harry's farm.

Season 12 (2022) — Will Simpson & Jessica Cova

Are Will Simpson & Jessica Cova still together?

Will and Jess are still together after walking away hand-in-hand in Season 12. The couple currently live together on Will's crop and sheep farm and even have a puppy together now!

Season 13 (2023) — Brad Jones & Clare Hockings

Are Brad Jones & Clare Hockings still together?

In December 2023, Brad and Clare welcomed their first baby together. "We didn't think it would happen as quickly as it did," Brad told New Idea. Good on them!

Season 13 (2023) — David McMahon & Emily Gordon

Are David McMahon & Emily Gordon still together?

As of October 2023, these two lovebirds are officially engaged! David proposed to Emily in Mudgee's Evamor Valley where the two shared their first date together.

Season 13 (2023) — Andrew Coleman & Claire Saunders

Are Andrew Coleman & Claire Saunders still together?

Claire has moved from Tasmania to Andrew's farm in Narromine, NSW, taking her dogs and horses with her! They two have told Woman's Day that it's all going swimmingly. "It's all falling into place nicely," Andrew told Woman's Day.

Season 13 (2023) — Matt Young & Olivia Benic

Are Matt Young & Olivia Benic still together?

Thankfully, Matt and Olivia are still going strong after Season 13 of Farmer Wants A Wife. Some have even speculated that the two of them are engaged about seeing a shiny rock on Olivia's finger after a holiday in Fiji. They haven't confirmed anything yet, but it looks like it's all smooth sailing for these two.

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No Space? No Problem. 16 Small Sofas For Apartment Living

Maggie Zhou — Fri, 19 Apr 2024 02:19:50 +0000

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Finding the perfect sofa for your living room is hard. Finding the perfect sofa that actually fits your teeny tiny living room is even harder.

Trust me, I've spent hours of my life trekking through infinite scroll sites, right clicking on sofas that scream "chic" yet "in my budget".

After narrowing down my options, I inevitably become disgruntled at the fact that, unless I put a hole in my wall, the sofa just won't fit. It's why my first port of call is to scroll down to the dimensions of a piece and ensure I'm not looking at any couches over two metres wide.

So here, we've gathered some of our favourite small sofa options that work with, and not against, your compact (or shall we say cosy) living room.

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Adairs Messina Forest Green Sofa

This gorgeous three-seater sofa comes in a velvet moss green and will make your lounge room feel like a calm fae forest.

Adairs Messina Forest Green Sofa, $, available at Adairs

Cassington Home Marianna 2 Seater Velvet Sofa

Who said your coffee table needed to be the only statement furniture piece? This sofa channels the mermaid aesthetic while still being super comfy.

Cassington Home Marianna 2 Seater Velvet Sofa, $, available at Temple & Webster

Adairs Conran Beige Boucle Sofa Bed

If you're strapped for space, having a sofa bed is a great way to maximise the practicality of your furniture.

Adairs Conran Beige Boucle Sofa Bed, $, available at Adairs

Freedom Kingscliff Sofa

This 2.5-seater sofa is super versatile and comes in 64 different colourways and materials. Small, compact, and perfect for your apartment.

Freedom KINGSCLIFF Sofa, $, available at Freedom

Luxo Living Trina 2 Seater Velvet Sofa with Ball Pillows

This cute two-seater features velvet upholstery that comes in two colourways —blush and blue. It also comes with two cute ball-shaped cushions.

Luxo Living Trina 2 Seater Velvet Sofa with Ball Pillows, $, available at Luxo Living

Living Fusion Millie 3-Seater Rounded Teddy Sofa

This curvy three-seater sofa looks like a chic, fluffy cloud and costs less than $1,000. Sign us up.

Living Fusion Millie 3 Seater Rounded Teddy Sofa, $, available at Temple & Webster

Castlery Mori Performance Fabric Armless 2-Seater Sofa

This Japandi-style sofa can be bought as an individual piece or in a five-piece set, so you can tailor it precisely to your space.

Castlery Mori Performance Fabric Armless 2 Seater Sofa, $, available at Castlery

Lounge Lovers Long Beach Mini Left Corner Sofa

This small sofa has a corner chaise lounge attached so you don't need to forgo comfort, even if your space is tiny.

Lounge Lovers Long Beach Mini Left Corner Sofa, $, available at Lounge Lovers

Grado Swell 2-Seater Sofa

Boucle babes, rejoice. Grado's ultra-slick and minimalist two-seater is sure to ooze elegance in your home. This statement piece comes in 13 colours and fabrics.

Grado Swell 2 Seater Sofa, $, available at Rj Living

Lounge Lovers Bronte 2-Seat Sofa

Made from Italian linen, this two-seater is a modern, boxy sofa that adds a luxe casualness to any room.

Lounge Lovers Bronte 2 Seat Sofa, $, available at Lounge Lovers

West Elm Carlo Leather Mid-Century Sofa

West Elm Caleb has got nothing on West Elm Carlo. This mid-century-inspired sofa is a made-to-order item that's crafted in the leather grain of your choice.

West Elm Carlo Leather Mid-Century Sofa, $, available at West Elm

Plush Dion 2-Seater

Dion is a no-fuss sofa collection that prioritises comfort and compactness — coming in with a width of 164cm.

Plush Dion 2 Seat, $, available at Plush

IKEA Esseboda 2-Seat Sofa

IKEA's new sofa is touted to be one of its softest yet. Esseboda is a generous sofa that changes the stereotype of squishy two-seaters.

IKEA Esseboda 2-Seat Sofa, $, available at IKEA

Plush Melbourne Petite 2 Seat

Named after one of Australia's coolest cities, this two-seater is a suave addition to any living room.

Plush Melbourne Petite 2 Seat, $, available at Plush

Timothy Oulton Shaggy Sofa

This shaggy sofa is one that's dangerous: you might never want to leave its plush seat. The oversized number is an art piece and cosy couch in one.

TIMOTHY OULTON Shaggy Sofa, $, available at Coco Republic

IKEA Landskrona 2-Seat Sofa

Perfect for those who want a simple, timeless and more affordable option, this IKEA sofa is a modern choice that suits almost all spaces.

IKEA Landskrona 2-Seat Sofa, $, available at IKEA

Koala Compact Sofa

Creeping in at just under two metres, Koala's compact sofa packs a punch. Comfort and a classic shape are what this couch promises.

Koala Compact Sofa, $, available at Koala

Lounge Lovers Jax 2-Seat Sofa

Chic and small, this Lounge Lovers sofa is a cloud-like dream. Without armrests, it opens up any space it sits in.

Lounge Lovers Jax 2 Seat Sofa, $, available at Lounge Lovers

Grado Lasagna 2-Seater Sofa

I mean, who can resist a sofa named after lasagne? Its pillowy design features and generous space make it a rather special inclusion to your living room.

Grado Lasagna 2 Seater Sofa, $, available at Rj Living

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Melissa Leong Has Passed The Judging Mantle To Poh & Sofia — & This Is The Advice She Gave Them

Alexandra Koster — Fri, 19 Apr 2024 02:14:09 +0000

This season, the MasterChef Australia judging panel is receiving a bit of a shake-up. After the tragic passing of Jock Zonfrillo and the departure of Melissa Leong (who has now gone on to co-host Dessert Masters), it seems like the MasterChef kitchen will be looking a little (okay, a whole lot) different in 2024.

But don’t be too worried. This season, judge Andy Allen, who is staying on the show, will be joined by three new judges — French celebrity chef Jean-Christophe Novelli, Melbourne-based food critic Sofia Levin, and MasterChef sweetheart and TV host, Poh Ling Yeow.

Before Poh and Sofia hit the MasterChef kitchen, they’ve revealed that former judge Melissa Leong reached out to the two new judges, sharing some moving words of advice.

“She [Melissa] reached out and she sent me a few texts, we had an exchange backwards and forwards,” Sofia Levin tells Refinery29 Australia. Leong’s words of advice? Embrace the journey.

“She was basically telling me to embrace the opportunity because so few people get it,” Levin confides. “She also told me to be myself, which is what I’ve heard from the production team and everybody again and again — it’s to just be yourself and you can’t go wrong.”

“That’s absolutely what she did the entire time she was on MasterChef and now going onto Dessert Masters as well,” Levin says.

Poh Ling Yeow, who was a MasterChef Australia runner-up in Season One and is now a regular in the MasterChef kitchen, also shares what Leong said to her after she scored the judging gig.

“She’s always been a massive supporter, obviously,” Poh tells us. “So she was just like, go get it! It just felt like she had confidence in me, which meant a lot.”

Poh shares that behind the scenes, the producers really wanted her to lean into her natural hosting style, which may have influenced the advice Leong gave her. “One thing I found quite surprising about the show is that the producers have been quite reluctant to direct us,” Poh divulges. “I felt really unhinged for the first half because I felt like I was a bit unanchored, not having that feedback.”

“But it’s because they were trying to get us to find our own voices and they didn’t want to turn us into little ‘hosty hosts’, if you know what I mean,” she continues. “They were very careful to let us discover our little niches in the foursome.”

“I think Melissa would have been totally aware of that and had been through that process as well.”

While some of us may still be getting used to the idea of an entirely new judging panel, I think we can rest easy (or in this case, cook), knowing that the future of MasterChef Australia is in very, very good hands.

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“Approach It With Open Minds”: New MasterChef Australia Judge Sofia Levin Wants Fans To Give The New Season A Chance

Alexandra Koster — Thu, 18 Apr 2024 07:34:13 +0000

MasterChef Australia is almost ready to return for another year, and while we’re addicted to watching cook ups in the MasterChef kitchen, it looks like the show will be having a bit of a mix-up this season with an entirely new judging panel.

After the tragic death of Jock Zonfrillo and the departure of the wonderful Melissa Leong (who has gone on to co-host the deliciously sweet Dessert Masters), this season, we don’t just have one new judge— we’ve got three of them!

While Andy Allen will be staying on with the show, he’ll be joined by three new judges — TV personality and former MasterChef Australia contestant Poh Ling Yeow, French chef Jean-Christophe Novelli, and finally, food critic and journalist Sofia Levin.

While we’re all well-versed with Poh, it might be the first time many have heard Levin’s name. However, you’ve likely read her work before. The Melbourne-based food critic has written about food for a bunch of publications, including Delicious, Broadsheet, Good Food, Lonely Planet, The Guardian, The Age and National Geographic.

With such a change in the judging panel, many fans are sceptical about how this new era of MasterChef Australia will go down. But according to Levin, we have nothing to worry about.

“I think change is inherently scary for human beings,” Levin tells Refinery29 Australia. “But I would just encourage people to do what I think they should do with food — and that is to approach it with curiosity and open minds.”

“Everybody brings something different, whether it’s to a judging panel or to any new job,” she continues.

Levin encourages audiences to reflect on their first experiences with previous judging panels. “For the first episode of Season One, unless they were already deeply in the food industry, they probably didn’t know who Matt, Gary, or George were either,” she says. “Then again with Andy, Mel and Jock, we’ve all become known through MasterChef.”

The Melbourne-based food critic, who runs the website Seasoned Traveller and encourages people to ‘eat curiously’, also reiterates that the show has never really been about the judges. “It’s not actually about us as judges,” she says. “Yes, we play an important role. But it’s about the contestants and their journey and their growth throughout the competition.”

“MasterChef as a whole is just so, so much bigger than any lineup of judges or cohort of contestants,” she reflects. “We all fall under this banner of something that, by its very nature, encourages people to experience and live out their food dreams.”

“In turn, everyone who watches the show can relate to that in some way as well, and hopefully go and cook or try eating something different.”

For many fans, it’s likely their first introduction to Sofia Levin. The food critic says fans can expect her to approach the MasterChef Australia kitchen and judging as a whole from a very different perspective thanks to her history of writing about food. “I come at it with a really broad understanding of food, different cuisines, and dishes in general,” she explains, citing her experience of being exposed with different dishes across the world thanks to her journalism career. “I backed it up with the research side of things.”

Levin explains that while the other three incredible judges are perhaps more “technique-driven”, she knows “how things are meant to taste.”

“I’m using that knowledge and everything I’ve learnt about food and the industry over the last 15 years and bringing that into the MasterChef kitchen, to then pass it on to people who have not been in a professional hospitality setting before,” she says. “My role there is to shine the restaurant light and the food and cuisine knowledge light onto them.”

“I’m an enthusiastic, discerning glutton,” she laughs.

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“I Felt Ashamed”: 12 Virgins & Late Bloomers Share Why They Haven’t Had Sex

Allie Daisy King — Thu, 18 Apr 2024 07:20:45 +0000

In our society, virginity and sexual experience are something that people are judged by. If you have too many sexual partners or lost your virginity when you were "too young", you're a slut. On the other side of the coin, if you are not sexually experienced enough, you are deemed a prude.

When it comes to sex and 'losing' virginities, the stories often tell that it's something you should do in high school years. Any virgins above the age of 18? Well, they're just a loser.

But this is far from the truth.

People wait for sex for myriad reasons that have nothing to do with their perceived fuckability. In fact, studies have shown that Millenials and Gen Z are having sex later and less than previous generations. Late bloomers are everywhere, and can look like anything!

Refinery29 Australia asked readers about their stories of being a sexual "late bloomer" — from those who felt judgement at 'losing' their virginity after school, to those who are virgins in their 30s.

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Sophie, 31, She/They

Have you had sex?
No.

Have you been kissed?
No.

Why not?
I am asexual and have never been in a romantic relationship.

Do you experience shame or judgement for being a late bloomer?
Absolutely and friends will make harmless jokes about it, but they really do hurt. As I am sure other ace people can attest, it makes you question if there’s something inherently wrong with you for not wanting and experiencing physical love.

Emerald, 25, She/Her

Have you had sex?
Yes.

Have you been kissed?
Yes.

If you have had sex, how old were you when you lost your virginity?
21.

Why do you consider yourself a 'late bloomer'?
I did at the time, but now it seems I wasn't too young or not old! It doesn't matter anyway. It was a good age because I was ready for it.

Do you experience shame or judgement for being a late bloomer?
I felt ashamed at the time, especially from ages 16 to 20. Everyone was having sex and kissing people, while I never did. Especially my friends sharing their sexual experiences and I had nothing to contribute. Now it seems so silly and not important. There shouldn’t be a rush for these things. Plus the pandy dandy would’ve made it even harder for people!

Shan, 30, She/Her

Have you had sex?
Yes.

Have you been kissed?
Yes.

If you have had sex, how old were you when you lost your virginity?
20.

Why do you consider yourself a 'late bloomer'?
At the time, I felt like everyone around me was having sex. I moved to a regional university town and that's what the college kids were doing in their spare time. I felt immense pressure to contribute 'sexy' stories during this time of my life.

Do you experience shame or judgement for being a late bloomer?
I look back with kind eyes to my younger self and realise there is nothing to be ashamed about. In fact, I'm happy I made the decision to wait until I was 20. At the time, I fed myself such negative self-talk about being a 'late bloomer' — and thought my friends would judge me for it. In reality, I'm sure they couldn't have given a rats. I WISH I had been honest because it was tiring to keep up the white lie that I lost it during high school to my college friends. Then I was telling my school friends that I lost it to someone I met on Tinder.

The truth was, it ended up happening with a guy I met in college during my second year of study. Sure, it wasn't perfect (as it never is), but he was sweet, it was consensual and I could have jumped for joy because it was DONE!

Lauren, 23, She/Her

Have you had sex?
Yes.

Have you been kissed?
Yes.

If you have had sex, how old were you when you lost your virginity?
Just before my 19th birthday.

Why do you consider yourself a 'late bloomer'?
I didn’t have a proper kiss until I was 18 and lost my virginity a few months later. All of my friends at the time had already been having sex for years at that point. At 23, I still have never had a long term relationship and often get surprised reactions when I tell people this.

Do you experience shame or judgement for being a late bloomer?
I think most of my shame was internal, feeling like I wasn’t pretty or hot enough for someone to want to kiss or have sex with. I think also, in the media and society, there is a general “acceptable” age for these sorts of things, which really just isn’t the case. This is something I have worked through in therapy over the past few years, and now I feel much more at ease about my pace and own personal journey.

Olivia, 26, She/Her

Have you had sex?
No.

Have you been kissed?
Once.

Why do you consider yourself a 'late bloomer'?
I identify as being on the asexual spectrum, but earlier in life, I thought it was because I hadn’t found the right person. Physical, romantic relationships to me feel special and intimate, and I want to do those things with a person I am comfortable with. I’ve never felt pressure to act otherwise, and I’m still comfortable with my situation. It doesn’t feel like I’m lacking that connection, so I guess I’m less likely to seek it out. If it comes around, great! But it's also totally fine if not.

Do you experience shame or judgement for being a late bloomer?
Societally yes, but not from my friends and family.

Emily, 24, She/Her

Have you had sex?
No.

Have you been kissed?
No.

Why have you not had sex or been kissed?
I've never felt attracted to anyone, so anytime I felt romantically about anyone, I would kind of back away once it had any potential. In recent years, I've started to realise that I'm ace and although that doesn't mean I can't have sex or kiss, it's just not something that I want to do.

Why do you consider yourself a 'late bloomer'?
According to everything I read, watch, and listen to, I am definitely a late bloomer. It can be hard not to feel like you're 'behind' when everything around you reinforces that it's odd to be my age without any sexual experiences.

Do you experience shame or judgement for being a late bloomer?
I have some supportive friends and family who don't make me feel like I'm odd for being a late bloomer, but it gets more complicated if I bring up that I'm ace and not interested in those experiences at all. Sometimes, it's easier to go along with being judged for being a late bloomer rather than being judged for being ace, because it hurts a lot more when I explain being ace and get shut down or told you'll understand once you meet the right person.

Elena, 27, She/Her

Have you had sex?
Yes.

Have you been kissed?
Yes.

If you have had sex, how old were you when you lost your virginity?
26.

Why do you consider yourself a 'late bloomer'?
I was never waiting for the right person or saving myself for marriage, it’s just that it didn’t happen until later for me. I never saw it as something special or that I needed to be in love.

Going back to high school, I wasn’t the girl to get guys' attention — people didn’t have a crush on me and I had my first kiss at 16 (the last of my group). I think I carried that lack of attention from guys and the lack of confidence with me into adulthood.

Through uni, I had a friend tell me to lower my standards just to ‘lose it’. That caused some self-reflection and thinking that maybe my standards were too high, and then that made me question my self-worth and created a belief that I wasn’t worthy of someone I was attracted to. That stuck with me for a while.

A couple of years before I lost it, I just struggled to put myself out there. I hate the apps, (still do) and having the same fucking conversations over and over and seeing the same people on there. That cycle didn’t make me feel great, but I just kept telling my friends I was fine with it and ‘it will happen when it happens’. But it did get to me — I felt like the odd one in my group. I couldn’t contribute to group conversations, had nothing valuable to add about relationships, I felt on the outs, and that I was inexperienced, which again impacted my confidence.

When I finally had sex, it was a one-night stand with a guy I met on Tinder, and I honestly have no idea why him and why in that moment.

Do you experience shame or judgement for being a late bloomer?
The most judgement I had was from that ‘friend’ from uni, who couldn’t believe I hadn’t had sex at 19, and told me if I waited too long, guys wouldn’t want to sleep with me anyway and to lower my standards. At the time, I took that to heart and believed her. I know that’s not true.

I felt a lot of internal shame and judged myself for not just doing it. At times, I felt like I was broken and that there was something wrong with me, especially as I entered my early 20s. But as I got older, those insecurities started to manifest as feeling excluded from conversations and on the outs with my friends. My friends, however, never made me feel judged or shamed. They never made it seem like a big deal; they are the best.

Willow, 27, She/Her

Have you had sex?
No.

Have you been kissed?
No.

Why have you not had sex or been kissed?
I’m socially inept and quite terrified of putting myself out there, but also no one has really shown any interest.

Why do you consider yourself a 'late bloomer'?
I don’t think I’ve actually 'bloomed'. I think I’ve just been slower about the ‘relationship journey’ in comparison to my peers.

Do you experience shame or judgement for being a late bloomer?
I think sometimes I get upset about it. I didn’t really care as much in my early twenties — you watch everyone around you casually hook up with people, and it’s so fun, and you kind of just sit there excited that one day that will happen for you. It can become more obvious as you get older —people start to settle down and have children. I do have moments where I look around the table at a dinner party and I’m tenth wheeling. Or I'll go on holidays with friends and it’s cheaper for them because they’ve got someone to split costs with.

I think I feel a sense of judgement when those around me ask if I’m seeing anyone. When I think about actually meeting someone and having to tell them that I am a late bloomer, I do fear the judgement that will surround that.

At the end of the day, I know that there’s so much more to me than being a late bloomer. My value doesn’t come from whether other people find me attractive. I have an incredibly full life filled with a lot of joy from amazing friendships, a caring family and a fulfilling career and fun hobbies. I’m worth a lot more than just being someone deemed attractive by society, even though I am incredibly cute anyway.

Ashley, 23, She/Her

Have you had sex?
Yes.

Have you been kissed?
Yes.

If you have had sex, how old were you when you lost your virginity?
I was 22 and whilst I felt like a late bloomer in society, a lot of my friends were in the same boat as me. It made me wonder why I didn’t hear stories like mine in media more often.

Why do you consider yourself a 'late bloomer'?
I was never the subject of male attention in high school and that really set me up to have some major confidence issues surrounding dating. I met my current boyfriend on Tinder after two years of actively dating and he was shocked to learn that despite my extensive dating experience, I’d only kissed two guys before him (my first being only a year before we met)

Do you experience shame or judgement for being a late bloomer?
I felt shame within myself but never received this from others around me. I think if I had known my time was coming, I would’ve felt okay about it. But because it felt like it would never happen to me I felt like I wasn’t good enough.

Sophia, 30, She/Her

Have you had sex?
Yes.

Have you been kissed?
Yes.

If you have had sex, how old were you when you lost your virginity?
18.

Why do you consider yourself a 'late bloomer'?
I was officially an adult when I first had sex — the first time I was in a real relationship. I was YEARS behind everybody else I knew.

Do you experience shame or judgement for being a late bloomer?
I 100% did when I was younger. I was known as the ‘prude’, some sort of Charlotte from Sex And The City. My friends would act surprised if I said anything remotely related to sex.

Natalie, 28, She/Her

Have you had sex?
No.

Have you been kissed?
Yes.

Why have you not had sex or been kissed?
I have not had sex because I have never gotten far enough in a relationship to do so. Actually, that’s a lie. I was in a relationship with a close male friend but realised I wasn’t sexually attracted to them and didn’t want to take that next step with them.

Do you experience shame or judgement for being a late bloomer?
Pop culture makes it seem that being a virgin is loser behaviour. I go between ‘It’s fine I’m a virgin, I just haven’t felt comfortable with someone yet’ and ‘Oh my god, I can’t tell anyone’.

LJ, 26, Any Pronouns

Have you had sex?
Yes.

Have you been kissed?
Yes, at uni parties by friends and peers but never by someone who likes me.

Why have you not had sex or been kissed?
I used to think it was because I wasn't attractive enough, but now I just think maybe the opportunity hasn't arisen because of extraneous factors. I'm quite introverted and I haven't ever been on a one-on-one date. I grew up going to church and being stuck in purity culture,so I don't know how to seek experiences out without feeling shame, guilt and discomfort.

If you have had sex, how old were you when you lost your virginity?
I did share some tender moments with an online partner when I was 22, but I've never had sex physically in person with someone.

Why do you consider yourself a 'late bloomer'?
Everything my peers experience, I seem to experience about three to four years afterwards. Even things like getting my licence (I was 21 when I got P-plates) and getting my first full-time job (I was 25). It's always been this way; all through my teens and into my 20s. It still continues. I'm getting closer and closer to 30 and I've never been overseas and I've never had a relationship.

Do you experience shame or judgement for being a late bloomer?
Not, shame or judgement but definitely more surprise from people. I do sometimes feel like people wonder what I've been doing instead.

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17 Decadent Gift Ideas Taurus Signs Will Love

Karina Hoshikawa — Thu, 18 Apr 2024 01:57:44 +0000

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The end of the warmer weather signals that it's finally Taurus season! With this zodiac's arrival comes a renewed sense of introspection and strength that is exemplary of its symbol, the steadfast bull. We chatted with astrologer Lisa Stardust about the most meaningful gifts worthy of this strong, yet sensual sign.

"As we embrace the new season, earthly pleasures will be ignited," Stardust shares with Refinery29. "Taurus is known to be super indulgent, romantic, sensual, and decadent. As an earth sign, they enjoy the finer things in life," she says.

We've lined up 17 gift picks approved by the stars ahead — including plenty of self-love items like a luxe body oil, a silky slip dress and vibey candles to set a luxurious birthday mood for your Taurus friend.

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Papier Al Fresco Spiral Journal Notebook

For a Taurus, one of the finest forms of self-care might be cooking. They have a natural talent for creating and experimenting with recipes, so consider gifting them this beautiful spiral journal notebook where they can write down all their favourite recipes. "Taurus spends a lot of time focusing on self-care," says Stardust. What better self-care than a lovely warm dish?

Papier Al Fresco Spiral Journal Notebook, $, available at Papier

Idle Hands Jex Vinyl Stand In Lilac

Tauruses love music, so this record holder could be the ultimate gift for the Taurus in your life. They can display their vinyls proudly to the world and become art, while it's practical for it's ability to easily store them away.

Idle Hands Idle Hands - Jex Vinyl Stand - Lilac, $, available at Pinky's

Skims Fits Everybody Lace Slip Dress

If something a little more comfortable is more their speed, consider something that also taps into their sexy side. "Tauruses are super sensual, so a beautiful piece of lingerie is something that will speak to their innate nature," says Stardust.

Skims Skims Fits Everybody Lace Slip Dress, $, available at Skims

TheraFace PRO

Tauruses are the epitome of "work hard, play hard." Enter a Theragun for your face.
"A massager will help relax the Bull’s tender muscles after a hard day’s work," says Stardust.

Therabody Therabody TheraFace PRO, $, available at Therabody

Boy Smells Kush Ash Cedar Stack Trio

Being the energetic beings they are, any Taurus friend will appreciate some relaxing energy via a woody, earthy candle – or three. "Tauruses appreciate gifts that will activate their senses," explains Stardust.

Boy Smells Boy Smells Kush Ash Cedar Stack Trio, $, available at Mecca

Zonzo Zoncello Pack

A zesty drink pack makes for a great gift for a Taurus looking to unleash their inner mixologist. They can also pretend they are on holiday somewhere much warmer.

Zonzo Zoncello Pack, $, available at Zonzo

Salt By Hendrix Jade Gua Sha

Anyone else learning how to properly do gua sha at home? "A facial massage will open Taurus’s heart and calm their chakras," says Stardust, adding that a self-care gift like this sleek stone is a gift they'll use "readily and eagerly."

SALT by Hendrix Salt By Hendrix Jade Gua Sha, $, available at Adore Beauty

ILIA Multistick

"Ruled by Venus, Taurus loves beauty products to ground themselves and as part of their routine," says Stardust of this multitasking wonder by beloved clean brand ILIA.

Ilia ILIA Multistick, $, available at Mecca

manucurist Green Flash Routine Set

"Nail polish is perfect for the Bull, who finds solace and enjoyment in getting their nails done and beautifying themselves," says Stardust. Even better: This plant-based nail polish set is a way to easily maintain nails at home.

Manicurist manucurist Green Flash Routine Set, $, available at Mecca

Millie Savage Heart Chain Necklace

This funky necklace is perfect for romantic Taurus types who want to wear their heart on their sleeve or, in this case, neck.

Millie Savage Chained Heart Necklace, $, available at Millie Savage

Em On Holiday Thin Dark Green Stripe Resort Long Set

"A cute and sweet sleep set is the perfect gift for Taurus’s sensual nature and vibe," Stardust recommends.

Em On Holiday Thin Stripe Resort Long Set - Dark Green, $, available at Em on Holiday

Sol de Janeiro Bum Bum Body Firmeza Oil

Taurus can take a moment to connect with themselves with some skin-nourishing oil, like this one from Sol de Janeiro. "Body oil, when rubbed on, will help calm the Bull’s muscles and also offer a sensual release from gentle touch," Stardust tells us.

Sol de Janeiro Sol de Janeiro Bum Bum Body Firmeza Oil, $, available at Mecca

Lanolips 101 Ointment Multipurpose Superbalm

Tauruses often find themselves being the supportive friend or family member. Repay the favour by gifting them some support of their own in the form of this moisturising multipurpose balm.

Lanolips 101 Ointment Multipurpose Superbalm, $, available at Sephora Australia

Vush Empress 2

Tauruses are known to be sensual creatures, so what better way to bring that out of them than with the Vush Empress 2? They'll be buzzing the night away.

VUSH Vush's Empress 2 Clitoral Vacuum Stimulator, $, available at Vush

July Weekender Bag

With travel well and truly on the cards again, your Taurus friend will appreciate a luxurious weekender bag like this one from Aussie brand July.

July Carry All Weekender, $, available at July

Maison Balzac Pomponette Coupes

"A set of champagne coupe glasses is perfect for Taurus’ decadent nature," Stardust says. We love this playful, bejewelled set from Maison Balzac.

Maison Balzac Maison Balzac Pomponette Coupes, $, available at Maison Balzac

Unearthed Crystals Selenite Trinket Bowl

Tauruses love to surround themselves with thoughtful trinkets. "A cleansing crystal will transform and evolve the energy of Taurus whenever they use it," says Stardust of this keepsake dish. "Also, it’ll make them feel more aligned with their bodies."

Unearthed Crystals Unearthed Crystals Selenite Trinket Bowl, $, available at Unearthed Crystals

Soul Cards Tarot Deck

"Being that Taurus is ruled by the planet Venus, they hold relationships close to their hearts. All the more reason why they’ll enjoy this tarot deck," says Stardust.

Soul Cards Soul Cards Tarot Deck, $, available at Revolve

Bala Balance Blocks

For the Yogi Taurus, there's no better gift than these vibey blocks perfect for elevating and deepening their practice.

Bala Bala Balance Blocks, $, available at Stylerunner

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Which Married At First Sight Australia 2024 Couples Are Still Together?

Alexandra Koster — Thu, 18 Apr 2024 01:22:02 +0000

The 2024 season of Married At First Sight Australia is over — and damn, what a season. With a runaway groom, plenty of cheating scandals, and even a couple swap, this season of MAFS will go down as one of the most chaotic so far.

Despite this, final vows saw four couples say yes to each other and agree to try and make it work in the real world — Jade and Ridge, Jayden and Eden, Jack and Tori, and Sara and Tim. As for whether they’ve actually stayed together? Well, internet sleuthing indicates mixed results.

With plenty of sneaky papped photos of this season’s couples and even cryptic slip-ups in exclusive Refinery29 Australia interviews, we’ve got the goss on who we think is still together from MAFS 2024 — and who we think has broken up.

Sara & Tim

With Tim’s love for Colombia and Sara’s Colombian background, it seemed like these two were a match made in heaven.

But things started to go downhill when it was revealed that Sara had emotional cheated on Tim during the season and met up with her ex without him knowing. However, the two of them worked through their issues, which ultimately led to them both saying yes to each other at the final vows.

Are Sara and Tim still together?

While Sara and Tim seemed cute as punch at the final vows and in the reunion, it seems like this hasn’t lasted very long. In photos obtained by Yahoo! Lifestyle, Tim was shown smooching his ex-girlfriend on February 1.

This is particularly interesting given that his on-screen wife, Sara, has come under fire for seeing her ex during the experiment. I’d say it was nice while it lasted, but it wasn’t, really.

Sara has also now confirmed that the two of them have broken up. “We broke up a month after the Reunion,” Sara told 9Entertainment. “We didn’t speak for a little while after, it was hard for us both but a few months down the track we started talking again.”

“We’re definitely friends now, we are very amicable. It’s been good to be on good terms because we went through this crazy ride together.”

“Me and Lauren are the real love story,” Sara laughed.

Jack & Tori

Jack, a self-professed ‘alpha’, wanted a submissive woman. Instead, he got the fiercely independent Tori, who was raised by a strong single mother. Despite this, Jack was sure he could “dominate” Tori… Yikes! Tori’s best friend was immediately critical of him (go off queen), criticising the fact that all of his friends were actually just clients at the gym, and that he just gave an “off” vibe. The very next day, Jack said that there was no sexual connection between the two of them, making this relationship likely dead in the water.

Despite a rocky start (and a rocky season as a whole), Jack and Tori ultimately said yes to each other during the final vows in episode 36, shocking everyone.

Are Jack and Tori still together?

While we all didn’t think these two would end up making it, it turns out we might have been proved wrong!

According to gossip podcast, So Dramatic!, Jack and Tori aren’t only in a relationship still — they’re apparently planning on moving in together! It comes as photos from Daily Mail showed Jack and Tori spending Christmas together in Melbourne with Tori’s family. Honestly, colour me surprised.

In the official Married At First Sight podcast, Tori spilled that she had already moved to the Gold Coast. “Life up here now, it’s everything I thought it would be… our lifestyles are very much the same,” she said of the move.

She also spoke about Jack’s behaviour during the experiment. “I think he’s… not grown, he didn’t need to grow… [but] he definitely learnt the art of refinement,” she said. “And just thinking before you speak”.

Jayden & Eden

The brother of former season nine contestant Mitch, Jayden assures us that he’s there for commitment (unlike his brother). As soon as he sets eyes on Eden, the physical attraction between the two was palpable, but it soon got awkward after Jayden revealed that he was a kickboxer. But he soon won Eden over thanks to his soft, gentle vows.

While Jayden aired some concerns about being judged too soon or that Eden didn’t like her, after chatting it through, Eden revealed that the feelings were mutual.

Since their wedding, the two of them have been the token love birds of the group, being the first to say the big L word to each other.

Are Jayden and Eden still together?

While our feelings about Jayden have been ebbing and flowing (especially towards the end of the season), these two made it past the final vows… until they didn’t.

Yep, while it seemed that the two of them were having smooth sailing, Eden shocked us all when she announced that her and Jayden had broken up on the 17th of April.

“When I made the decision at Final Vows to be with Jayden, I really did that with long-term intentions,” Eden wrote in a statement on Instagram. “Jayden and I spent many months together after the experiment, during which Cub gained a dad and I gained a second family who I’m truly grateful for.

“I’m saddened to share that toward the end of the show airing, our relationship came to an unexpected end. The ‘reality’ is, the person I chose didn’t choose me.”

“Whilst I’m disappointed, I will never regret the experiment, the people I met, the lessons I learnt and the growth this process has had on me.”

Some fans have been shocked by the statements, considering they were portrayed as one of the strongest couples on the show. However, cracks began to show after a photo of Jayden emerged, which showed him topless and cosying up to bride Lauren during a night out.

Yikes. Well Eden, you’re probably better off alone.

Ridge & Jade

While I must admit I was sceptical about old mate Ridge at first, it turns out Ridge and Jade might be one of the more solid couples to come from the show.

In a surprising turn of events, the two have clicked almost immediately and have clear chemistry from the get-go. It seems like they’re on the exact same wavelength (whatever wavelength that might be). Unsurprisingly, they both said yes to each other at the final vows.

Are Ridge and Jade still together?

Despite Ridge’s extensive cheating rumours, it seems like Ridge and Jade might be another success story in the MAFS universe, with Yahoo! Lifestyle reporting that the two are still together, citing a photo that depicts Jade and Ridge smooching after the show. They also still follow each other on Instagram, which is always a good sign.

They’ve also apparently been spotted house-hunting, which is a big moment for the two, who have struggled to say where and when they’ll commit to each other.

However, it seems like the two of them actually broke up after the final vows before getting back together right before the reunion. “Producers knew they were in the middle of a fight but it made no sense to bring that onto the show, so they were told to smile and fake it for the sake of giving viewers a happy ending,” an insider told Yahoo! Lifestyle.

Timothy & Lucinda

Lucinda might not have been Timothy’s type on paper, but as the ceremony proceeded, these two were willing to give each other a chance. As the day progressed, however, Tim continued to feel awkward during photoshoots, kissing, and PDA. For him, it was also an emotional day as the last surviving member of his family. Lucinda’s kindness shone through as showed herself to be a supportive bride.

After an emotional speech at his wedding reception, Tim revealed more details about his family history, including that his father had only passed away six weeks prior. Through tears, we could finally see Tim let his walls down and be vulnerable, so we have high hopes that these two will continue to be emotionally intimate with each other as the experiment progresses.

Are Tim and Lucinda still together?

Unfortunately, Tim and Lucinda decided to call it quits during episode 33 of MAFS. It was a sad moment for all of us, who began to really root for their relo. But never fear, Lucinda might have written ‘LEAVE’ but she also dropped the most beautiful dumping poem in the process.

While they may not have ended with a love story, the friendship with these two is a beautiful one — and it looks like it’s still going strong today with the two of them being regularly pictured together.

Lauren & Jonathan

Lauren has been cast as the chaotic bride of the bunch, and damn, she’s living up to her name. After a sleep-in and a late arrival, she finally arrived to meet her groom, Jonathan — a 5am cold shower kinda dude.

Things were fine in the season, but ultimately came to a head after it was revealed that Jono had been texting ex-bride Ellie behind Lauren’s back, leading to an explosive final vows.

Are Lauren and Jonathan still together?

Every year, it seems like there’s a cheating scandal on MAFS. This year, it features none other than Jonathan and Ellie, who was previously shacked up with Ben.

Papped images depict Jonathan and Ellie making out on a Sydney beach, clearly not hiding the fact that they’re together after the show has ended.

So yeah, Lauren and Jono are done. But Jono and Ellie? It looks like it’s smooth sailing.

Andrea & Richard

Protect these two at all costs, seriously. In one of the oldest couples Married At First Sight Australia has seen, these two seem like a perfect match thanks to their shared love of motorbikes and living life to the fullest. Honestly, can we make all the contestants over 50? Please?!

Their wedding was unsurprisingly super wholesome and culminated with some ‘daggy dancing’ during their first dance as a married couple. Thankfully, it seems these two are as into each other as we hoped they’d be.

Are Andrea and Richard still together?

In episode 29, Andrea and Richard decided to write ‘LEAVE’, ending their time in the MAFS experiment.

Things began to go downhill after Richard struggled to listen to Andrea’s concerns and problems around intimacy emerged. Honestly, these two are better off broken up.

Ben & Ellie

Our next couple is Ben and Ellie. Ellie only broke up with her ex a few weeks before she was due to wed, but is now ready to live her white picket fence life. Meanwhile, the adventurous Ben is grappling with finding love after the death of his best friend to cancer. While they immediately hit it off at the alter and were clearly into each other, suspicions soon started to surface after Ellie’s cousin Jordan accused him of not being there for the right reasons. However, Ben addressed these concerns in his wedding speech, to which he said, “Why not?”.

Are Ben and Ellie still together?

Ben and Ellie were one of the first couples to leave the experiment in episode 21. But Ellie’s presence was still felt after she left, with a cheating scandal emerging between her and Jono.

While her and Ben are done, it looks like Ellie and Jono are still going strong today.

Michael & Stephen

After Michael’s previous groom did a runner before he even made it to the altar, we didn’t know if we’d see this sweet angel back on our screen. Thankfully, Michael has finally been matched with an equally angelic groom, Stephen.

Immediately, the two of them have hit it off and are truly the epitome of all things good on this show.

Are Michael and Stephen still together?

Unfortunately in episode 25, Micahel and Stephen decided to call it quits and leave the experiment after Stephen revealed he had the hots for his hairdresser. Way to break my heart!

Natalie & Collins

Bless these two angels, who have apparently been matched as the obligatory nerdy couple on this season of Married At First Sight. Bonding over their love for Essendon Football Club and Taylor Swift at the altar, these sweeties honestly pulled at our heartstrings with their authenticity. While Collins has never been in a relationship, he says that he’s still yearning to find love. Meanwhile, Natalie, who is struggling with the recent death of her father, is here to share her enthusiastic attitude with someone.

At their reception, while these two got a quirky soundtrack, they were honestly a breath of fresh air with their shared interests and their mutual interest in each other. However, Collins shared some brief concerns about the two of them being potentially too high-energy and saying that he was a bit put off by Natalie’s nerdy side.

After the wedding, Collins decided that the two needed to sleep in separate rooms as he was uncomfortable with the relationship.

Are Natalie and Collins still together?

In episode 10, Natalie officially said SEEYA to Collins, opting to leave the experiment. The best part is that she didn’t even wait for the Commitment Ceremony. Queen shit.

In an interesting turn of events, Natalie has been pictured with groom Ash, sparking rumours that the two of them might be dating.

Ash & Madeleine

Because the season was clearly getting stale, they decided to bring in Ash and Madeleine — a medium who’s been chatting to ghosts at the dinner table. Since they first said “I do”, these two have been on rocky ground. Ash can’t understand Madeleine’s “gift” or her crying over cows, while Madeleine is already saying there’s “bad energy” in the relationship.

So it’s all looking great, really!

Are Ash and Madeleine still together?

After an absolutely wild start, Ash and Madeleine unsurprisingly didn’t last. Hell, they didn’t even last one week, with them both deciding to leave the show in episode 18.

Since filming has wrapped, Ash has been spotted with another bride, Natalie (who was paired up with Collins), with some speculating that the two of them are dating.

Cassandra & Tristan

Cassandra immediately captured our hearts with her devastating story about the death of her first love. Despite her heartbreaking past, she’s still a beautiful ball of sunshine who was looking for someone with a warm heart and a big smile. Cue, Tristan.

A man with respect for his mother, Tristan feels like a perfect match for Cassandra. While he hasn’t had a girlfriend before, Tristan is on the show to find love and have a happy ending.

If you weren’t smiling ear-to-ear at these two’s wedding and reception, you must not have been watching it. They’re the epitome of cute and wholesome, and I actually have so much hope for them.

Are Cassandra and Tristan still together?

In episode 29, Cassandra and Tristan both wrote ‘LEAVE’ after realising they were better off as friends (and after Tristan declared his love for Cass). It’s sad to see, but it looks like the two of them are still friends today.

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This Just In: All The New Fashion & Beauty Launches To Know In April

Angela Law — Wed, 17 Apr 2024 23:00:19 +0000

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Though we may be well and truly on the slide into winter, the beauty and fashion worlds are embracing the warmer weather. This is good news for anyone planning a summer trip to the northern hemisphere in the coming months, with retro swimwear, lightweight knits that will fit nicely into your vacation wardrobes.

But if you're settling in for the winter months like us, then you'll be pleased to hear there are a few launches to support you through the chill. A new and nourishing lip balm has found its way into our handbags, and candy-pop-coloured hair tools are brightening our days, while durable (and waterproof) outwear is ready to keep us cosy on all of our winter adventures.

Keep on scrolling for the most exciting launches for April 2024.

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Anna Quan Launches High Summer Collection

Anna Quan is one of our favourite Australian labels for chic and understated wardrobe staples and knitwear that isn't tied to a specific season. This April, the brand has launched FIVE, a collection that introduces plissé fabrics and embroidered tulle that are undeniably feminine, as well as tailoring and structured pieces as a bold contrast.

Of course, knitwear is also a cornerstone of the collection. "Knitwear forms the cornerstone of my summer wardrobe… Its ability to maintain a polished look, travel well and coupled with its adaptability across various body shapes and styling methods, makes it an indispensable part of our collection," said the brand's founder, Anna Hoang.Photo: Courtesy of Anna Quan.

Summer Fridays Celebrates 6th Birthday With Limited Edition Lip Butter Balm

Summer Fridays' Lip Butter Balms are one of our favourites — we love and use them all. This month, the brand has gifted us with a limited edition birthday cake flavour to celebrate its sixth birthday, and it's as delicious as it sounds. With a super sheer tint and slight shimmer, the balm smells just like the pink sugar balm in the range, which also happens to be our favourite flavour.Photo: Courtesy of Summer Fridays.

The North Face Launches Ripstop Icons Campaign

The North Face is leaning into its past, with the new Ripstop Icons collection that takes cues from the early 1970s pieces that were repurposed from parachute nylon and aircraft aluminium for climbers and backpackers.

What does that mean? In short, the brand's early iconic shapes (specifically, the 92 Ripstop Nuptse Jacket, Ripstop Denali Fleece Jacket, and Ripstop Denali Pants) have been reimagined with 2024 technologies, to create water-repellant outer layers and recycled fleece with a sturdy ripstop overlay. Prices range from $230 to $600 and they're available to shop on The North Face website now.Photo: Courtesy of North Face.

GHD Releases Limited Edition 'Colour Crush' Collection

GHD is arguably as well-known for its limited-release colourways as it is for its high-performing hair tools. In the latest drop, many of the brand's key tools (Chronos Styler, Duet Style, Max Styler, Gold Styler, and Helios Hairdryer) have been given a bold makeover, in bright colours like lime, red, and apricot. Photo: Courtesy of GHD.

Commonry Embraces 'Minimal Modernism' With New Collection

Commonry is moving into its next chapter, with a new collection titled Minimal Modernism. The workwear capsule features tailoring and refined silhouettes that will see you through winter, with pieces in neutral colourways such as mouse, ecru, raisin, and dessert rose. The elevated layers range from size 8 to 22, and each piece is adaptable enough to dress up for work or down for the weekend. You can shop the collection on the Commonry website and in-store, now. Photo: Courtesy of Commonry.

Country Road Takes A Step Towards Circularity With 50-Year Capsule

Iconic Aussie brand, Country Road, is celebrating 50 years of operation this month and to celebrate, its releasing a capsule collection made entirely from existing materials within the brand’s own supply chain. "The range is made using 30% recycled cotton sourced from Country Road production off-cuts and faulty garments which are collected, shredded, re-spun and blended with virgin cotton to give them a new life," the brand said in a press release at launch. The collection spans woman, man, child, and pet ranges, and includes cosy tracksuits that we'll personally be wearing all through winter.Photo: Courtesy of Country Road.

Tommy Hilfiger Reunites With K-Pop Group Stray Kids For Spring 2024 Collection

Tommy Hilfiger has once again collaborated with K-Pop group, Stray Kids, on a spring collection that includes the brand's, preppy, American wardrobe classics. Polos, knitwear, tailoring and a varsity jacket have been reimagined for the collection, with subtle updates to the silhouettes and fabrications (though the red, white, and blue colour scheme that's so specific to Tommy Hilfiger is still alive and well). The collection is now available to shop.Photo: Courtesy of Tommy Hilfiger.

Hunza G Celebrates 40 Years Of The Original Crinkle

Hunza G was the first brand to create the ultra-stretchy crinkle swimmers many of us know and love, and this April, the brand is turning 40. In the celebratory spring 2024 collection, the label is embracing "modern nostalgia", with a reimagining of its signature striped fabrics, as well as the introduction of metallic cocoa, khaki and wine colourways.

The campaign launch also leans into nostalgia, drawing inspiration from well-known swimwear editorials from years past, with a retro feel that has us itching to spend the summer on the Amalfi coast.Photo: Courtesy of Hunza G.

Nicki Minaj’s First-Ever LØCI Sneaker Collection Is Live

Nicki Minaj has partnered with UK-based brand LØCI to release a limited-edition collection of sneakers. The drop, which was released on April 12, includes five styles in 11 colourways, all made from the brand's bio-leather (a blend of recycled materials and non-food-grade corn). Prices range from $280 to $305.

"I'm absolutely thrilled to join the LØCI family as an owner," Nicki said in a statement released by the brand. "Their mission resonates with mine. Sneakers have undeniably played a transformative role in shaping my unique style, allowing me to boldly express my true self. I wanted to ensure that the culture I grew up with, one of never giving up, was mirrored in my collection. It’s more than just fashion; it’s a lifestyle. I’ll never put out a single pair that I don’t wear. My fans know that about me. It’ll always be 'Nicki Approved'."

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Angela Law — Wed, 17 Apr 2024 22:00:46 +0000

Since 1996, Australian Fashion Week has been the pinnacle of the local fashion calendar. While it may not be as widely covered as its northern hemisphere counterparts in Paris, Milan, London, New York, and Copenhagen, the week-long event remains an invaluable opportunity for local designers to show their Resort collections to the fashion world (and beyond!).

In recent years, it’s gained increasing international attention, with AFW leaning more heavily into innovative emerging designers who are blessedly embracing more diversity and inclusion in their choices of models. These days, some legacy brands have turned their attention to international fashion weeks, Zimmermann showing in Paris is the most notable example, making space that is eagerly being filled by boundary-pushing artists (Nicol & Ford and Erik Yvon are two examples that spring to mind).

The annual event was hosted at the Overseas Passenger Terminal in Circular Quay until 2012, before moving to Carriageworks in Redfern in 2013. Since then, the art precinct’s bricked buildings and arched windows have become as visually iconic as Australian Fashion Week itself, with street style photos immediately recognisable thanks to the industrial backdrops.

Over the years, though, it’s the moments on the runway that have rightfully planted themselves in our minds. In the last two years, we’ve seen progress in terms of First Nations representation, and in 2023, Ngali became the first Indigenous designer to have a solo show. In 2022, the first adaptive runway took place. In earlier years, the chaos of snakes and rats accompanying models down the runway has been the cause of headlines, and AFW has seen iconic international supermodels open shows, and awe-inducing offsite show locations at iconic Sydney landmarks have taken our breaths away.

In 28 years of Australian Fashion Week, there have been countless unforgettable moments, but these are some of our favourites.

Melissa George Sashays Down The Runway (1996)

MAY 1996 – MELISSA GEORGE AT THE AUSTRALIAN FASHION WEEK AWARDS. (Photo by Patrick Riviere/Getty Images)

In 1996, actor Melissa George took to the runway for Alex Perry. Though George was yet to hit it big in Hollywood (she starred in Alias and Grey’s Anatomy), her runway debut was the very same year she finished up her 501-episode run as Angel Parrish on Home and Away, so it was big news at the time.

Supermodel Linda Evangelista’s Ball Gown Moment (1997)

In AFW’s sophomore year, international supermodel Linda Evangelista made the trip to Australia for fashion week, but undoubtedly the most iconic moment was her walking in the Alex Perry show, in a ball gown that she is said to have been sewn into.

Rats On The Tsubi Runway (2001)

In 2001, Tsubi (now Ksubi) tested the poker face of every attendee when sending rats down the runway alongside the designs. The precise number of rats that were let loose is hard to come by, with some reporting 169 and others saying there were 250. Either way, one rat is too many, let alone hundreds. I’d challenge even the most seasoned fashion editor to maintain a straight face with literal rodents scurrying around their feet.

Kristy Hinze Wears A $1 Million Diamond Bikini & Diamond Python At Tigerlily (2001)

In 2001, Tigerlily upstaged its own $500,000 pearl bikini (worn by Eva Herzigova) the previous year by sending Kristy Hinze down the runway wearing a $1 million, diamond-encrusted bikini. Not only that, but she also carried a diamond python around her neck while walking and if the photos are anything to go by, the snake got a little bit snug at some points. Thankfully, no models or snakes were harmed in the making of this show.

Tsubi Makes A (Literal) Splash (2002)

One year after bringing rats to fashion week, Tsubi shocked show-goers once again, with models jumping from boats into Sydney Harbour, mid-show. Thankfully, everyone was safe and well, though admittedly, a bit damp.

Mischa Barton Sits Front Row (2008)

SYDNEY, AUSTRALIA – APRIL 28: Actor Mischa Barton and RAFW founder Simon Lock pose before the Kirrily Johnston catwalk show on the first day of Rosemount Australian Fashion Week Spring/Summer 2008/09 Collections at the Overseas Passenger Terminal on April 28, 2008 in Sydney, Australia. (Photo by Gaye Gerard/Getty Images)

Two years after exiting The OC, Mischa Barton visited Australia and joined Simon Lock (the founder of AFW) in the front row at the Kirrily Johnston show. Barton was one of the biggest stars in the world at the time, thanks to her iconic role as Marissa Cooper, and I just know that every teenage girl in the country saw these photos of her at Fashion Week.

Romance Was Born Takes Over The State Library Of New South Wales (2011)

SYDNEY, AUSTRALIA – MAY 01: Models showcase designs by Romance Was Born on the catwalk during their Spring/Summer 2011/12 collection launch at the State Library Of New South Wales on May 1, 2011 in Sydney, Australia. (Photo by Lisa Maree Williams/Getty Images)

Offsite shows are usually some of the most special in the schedule, thanks to the inspired locations. In 2011, Romance Was Born used the State Library of New South Wales as its backdrop for its collection, called ‘The Oracle’, which featured sculptural headpieces and gilded gowns.

Ten Pieces Turns The Icebergs Pool Into A Runway (2015)

SYDNEY, AUSTRALIA – APRIL 16: Models showcase designs during the Ten Pieces show at Mercedes-Benz Fashion Week Australia 2015 at Bondi Icebergs on April 16, 2015 in Sydney, Australia. (Photo by Ryan Pierse/Getty Images)

Photos barely do Ten Pieces’ breathtaking 2015 show justice. On a sparkling autumn day in Sydney, the label had models walk on the edge of the most iconic pool in the world, and showgoers sit inside the drained pool to watch the show. With surfers looking on from the waves beyond the pool, it doesn’t really get any more ‘Sydney’ than this show.

Bella Hadid Opens A Show (2016)

SYDNEY, AUSTRALIA – MAY 16: Model Bella Hadid leads models as they walk the runway during the Misha Collection show at Mercedes-Benz Fashion Week Resort 17 Collections at Carriageworks on May 16, 2016 in Sydney, Australia. (Photo by Stefan Gosatti/Getty Images)

In 2016, Bella Hadid opened the Misha Collection runway, with the designer saying at the time that Hadid embodies what a “Misha girl” is. Seeing an international supermodel on the Australian runways is always a thrill, and this was no different.

Oscar De La Renta Closes Fashion Week (2016)

SYDNEY, AUSTRALIA – MAY 20: Shanina Shaik walks the runway during the Oscar de la Renta show, presented by Etihad Airways, at Mercedes-Benz Fashion Week Resort 17 Collections at Carriageworks on May 20, 2016 in Sydney, Australia. (Photo by Stefan Gosatti/Getty Images)

An international designer like Oscar De La Renta showing at AFW is a rarity, but in 2016, the designer brought summer party dresses to the runway for the week’s closing show, led by model Shanina Shaik.

First Adaptive Runway (2022)

In 2022, AFW hosted the first (and long-overdue) adaptive runway. Disability consultants, Lisa Cox and Nikki Hind, were brought on board to plan the show, and that behind-the-scenes representation was mirrored on the runway with disabled models. Heartbreak High actress Chloé Hayden told us at the time that being cast as a model for the show was an “out of this world” experience.

Ngali Became The First Standalone First Nations Runway (2023)

AFW 2023 marked another long-overdue ‘first’ with Wiradjuri fashion designer Denni Francisco’s label, Ngali, becoming the first standalone show by a First Nations designer. Ahead of the show, a representative of the Metropolitan Local Aboriginal Land Council performed a Welcome to Country and held a moment of silence to acknowledge the Elders, as well as the lives lost in the Indigenous community in the past few years. The show was spectacular, with billowing resortwear and hand-painted boots capturing the spirit of the collection, titled ‘Murriyang’ (which translates to “skyworld” in the Wiradjuri language).

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We’ve Answered All Your Most Pressing Farmer Wants A Wife Questions

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Farmer Wants A Wife has always been a fan favourite when it comes to dating shows — the fact that we’re still going is proof of that. In 2024, we meet five farmers who are not only looking for their special person, but a partner who can embrace their unique lifestyle away from the hustle and bustle of the city.

From first impressions on dates to the heartwarming farm visits, there’s plenty to keep viewers hooked to the series that’s hosted by Samantha Armytage (and occasionally, Natalie Gruzlewski). But, there are many questions that still go unanswered about behind-the-scenes details that make Farmer Wants A Wife the addictive reality TV show that it is.

But that mystery ends here. From where the contestants sleep to the long filming hours, we’ve rounded up the most frequently asked questions about Farmer Wants A Wife and answered them, right here.

Is there an age limit to who can apply for Farmer Wants A Wife?

There’s no upper age limit, but the youngest contestant that the show has accepted to date was 20 years old.

How long does filming take?

Contestants are filmed six days a week, however, they do get some downtime away from the lens, as the cameras are not fixed to them 24 hours a day. The whole season takes approximately six to seven weeks to shoot.

Are the farmers actually farmers?

While this sounds like a trivial question, it’s definitely one that has crossed many viewers’ minds. In a world where reality TV’s authenticity is often questioned, it makes sense that people are curious. We can confirm that each of the men looking for love is actually a farmer in real life.

Where do the farmers and contestants sleep?

The farmers and the women they are dating all live on the farmers’ properties, which no doubt gives contestants as much time as possible to learn what a future life on the farm might truly look like.

What personal items are contestants allowed to bring?

The Farmer Wants A Wife cast members are permitted to bring their own clothing, makeup and hair styling products, and prescription medication only. They’re also given the heads-up to pack some farm-friendly clothing for the duration of filming.

Does clothing have to be pre-approved?

While the majority of outfits are sourced by the contestants themselves, a professional stylist and wardrobe assistant do check in on what cast members intend to wear on shoot days, to ensure there are no outfit double-ups and that wardrobe is varied throughout production.

Where do contestants go once they’re eliminated?

Farmer Wants A Wife farewells are usually filmed quite late at night, so when a contestant is eliminated from the show, they are picked up by a member of production and taken from the farm to a hotel for an overnight stay, before travelling home the next morning.

Farmer Wants A Wife airs Sunday at 7pm and Monday to Wednesday at 7:30pm on Channel 7 and 7plus.

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